vasculitis

It’s Okay To Not Be Okay.

Sometimes it’s okay to not be okay. I’ve had a rough time lately. I’ve had a lot of pain, and a cold. It’s sometimes hard to tell where one ends and the other begins. I won’t go into it, but it’s sucks. Not only do the symptoms suck, but the emotional baggage that goes along with it does too.

I feel like I’m wasting my life because I hurt so bad. I used to push myself harder, but it seemed to make it worse. I need to get out of this cycle and live again. I’ve been sad a lot lately. This has become a lonely life. I have amazing friends and family. I just don’t feel well enough to get out. I want to. I make plans. I just hurt so bad I want to die (not literally). I miss have having something to do (work, cheer). I need to find something to do.

I am trying to wean down on my pain meds. I’m doing pretty good at it.

I know this post is pretty sad and depressing. I honestly needed to just vent. I’m just tired of being sick and tired. I want to be the old me again, or better yet a new and improved me. I did buy a day planner. I used one when I worked and it really helped me to reach my goals. My phone is easy to just ignore. So I’ll see if this day planner will help me to get out of bed, write more, and maybe even eat healthier and exercise?! 🤞🏻

I must overcome this.

Well, I’ll leave you with this quote from Theodore Roosevelt:

“Courage is not having the strength to go on; Its going on when you don’t have the strength”

Hello, yet again…

I seem to have made a habit out of posting “I’m back” blogs, when I’ve obviously not been back. As many of you with chronic illness know, some days are harder than others. I’ve been experiencing a lot of bad days over the past several months. I’ve started to blog several times since my last post, but each time it doesn’t seem to make sense, or I ramble on and on (and on). I have a lot to catch everyone up on.

My health took a dangerous turn. Thankfully, my husbands job (amazing insurance and hotel/air points) allowed me to seek a second opinion with my original doctors in Texas. They saved my life once again. Since then (October), I’ve had three bronchial dilations, and two chemo infusions. I am honestly quite emotional about how it all went down, so I’ll blog about the specifics later. For now, I just wanted to get a post out there. My intention is to blog more, and finish my book. I love writing. It’s a wonderful outlet for me since my diagnosis. I feel like I’ve lost so much of my life to these diseases. I want to push myself to live life to the fullest with every essence of my being, but then the pain becomes my reality. It just sucks. Anyway, I hope to post more often, and way more uplifting blogs. 🤞🏻

My Inner Battle 

Warning. This is a very raw post. 
I feel like crap. I have been in bed since my last blog post, two days ago. I am so achy and lethargic. I finally forced myself to get up and shower, then sorted laundry. I think we have like five loads or so. I got super shaky and had to sit down. Then I got very nauseous. It sucks. However, the mental part is the worst. I’m beating myself up for not being there for everyone. I am angry that I have no energy. I feel like everyone is judging me and thinks I’m pathetic, yet I know that most everyone understands. It’s the battle inside my own head that hurts me the most. 

I hate all that this disease has stolen from me. I refuse to let it, but I know that I need to rest in order to let the meds do their work. My doctors suggesting I be admitted if I don’t stay down. I just do NOT want to be that pathetic sick girl people feel sorry for. 

It’s my inner battle that’s killing me.