fibromyalgia

Blogging just got easier…

I feel awful that I don’t blog as much as I would like. I always say “I’m back!” and then I’m gone for months! A lot of it is due to my illness. I spend a lot of time in bed, or asleep. Sadly, that’s how I have learned to cope with my pain. I have been focusing on getting out of that cycle as much as possible. In fact, the past two weeks, I have made it a point to at least go downstairs for a few hours. Most of the days, I’ve even left the house. I am trying to get some crafts going, and a few projects done. My youngest is back in cheerleading, and that means I’m back to taking photos again. This is HUGE for me. I feel like I have a purpose again, and this helps get me moving. I’m so excited about it!

My husband surprised me with a laptop for Christmas. I hadn’t even attempted to set it up until a few weeks ago. I just wanted one that I could write with, and edit photos on. He got me a nice one, but it has the tablet function, and it really confused me. I used to be pretty good on a computer. With smart phones and iPads, I haven’t really had to login to my old laptop in over two years! I like my new laptop, but it doesn’t have the same photo editing software my old computer had. I am getting used to it though. I really want to take a photoshop class, but I don’t know if my brain fog will allow it? I just don’t function like I used to. It can be very frustrating. That’s why I think it took me so long to set this laptop up. I just would get frustrated so quick. Anyway, now that I have it, I hope that I’m able to blog more regularly. No promises.

Including a few photos I have taken so far this season. I love going to the high school football games. I love that the cheerleaders and their families love the photos I take.

 

It’s Okay To Not Be Okay.

Sometimes it’s okay to not be okay. I’ve had a rough time lately. I’ve had a lot of pain, and a cold. It’s sometimes hard to tell where one ends and the other begins. I won’t go into it, but it’s sucks. Not only do the symptoms suck, but the emotional baggage that goes along with it does too.

I feel like I’m wasting my life because I hurt so bad. I used to push myself harder, but it seemed to make it worse. I need to get out of this cycle and live again. I’ve been sad a lot lately. This has become a lonely life. I have amazing friends and family. I just don’t feel well enough to get out. I want to. I make plans. I just hurt so bad I want to die (not literally). I miss have having something to do (work, cheer). I need to find something to do.

I am trying to wean down on my pain meds. I’m doing pretty good at it.

I know this post is pretty sad and depressing. I honestly needed to just vent. I’m just tired of being sick and tired. I want to be the old me again, or better yet a new and improved me. I did buy a day planner. I used one when I worked and it really helped me to reach my goals. My phone is easy to just ignore. So I’ll see if this day planner will help me to get out of bed, write more, and maybe even eat healthier and exercise?! 🤞🏻

I must overcome this.

Well, I’ll leave you with this quote from Theodore Roosevelt:

“Courage is not having the strength to go on; Its going on when you don’t have the strength”

Hello, yet again…

I seem to have made a habit out of posting “I’m back” blogs, when I’ve obviously not been back. As many of you with chronic illness know, some days are harder than others. I’ve been experiencing a lot of bad days over the past several months. I’ve started to blog several times since my last post, but each time it doesn’t seem to make sense, or I ramble on and on (and on). I have a lot to catch everyone up on.

My health took a dangerous turn. Thankfully, my husbands job (amazing insurance and hotel/air points) allowed me to seek a second opinion with my original doctors in Texas. They saved my life once again. Since then (October), I’ve had three bronchial dilations, and two chemo infusions. I am honestly quite emotional about how it all went down, so I’ll blog about the specifics later. For now, I just wanted to get a post out there. My intention is to blog more, and finish my book. I love writing. It’s a wonderful outlet for me since my diagnosis. I feel like I’ve lost so much of my life to these diseases. I want to push myself to live life to the fullest with every essence of my being, but then the pain becomes my reality. It just sucks. Anyway, I hope to post more often, and way more uplifting blogs. 🤞🏻

The Good Doctors

I had a doctor’s appointment today. I love seeing my Internal Medicine doctor because she truly cares, and wants to help. Not that the others don’t, but she really seems to care, She has made it her mission to get to know me and understand what I am going through. As most people with any type of illness can tell you, finding a doctor like this is very rare. I have been lucky to have three of these doctors in my lifetime. One of them was pre-diagnosis, back in the early to mid-2000s. She actually moved from my hometown of The Dalles to a town about two hours away. I remained her patient and drove to see her each appointment. Luckily, she moved back to my hometown and I continued to see her until I moved away. Then I had a slew of doctors that just were prescription happy, and misdiagnosed most of my illnesses. At my worst, I didn’t have insurance, and was at the end of my rope with all the symptoms from an undiagnosed Wegener’s Granulomatosis. I just happened to pick a doctor that my new insurance covered, and was near my home. She was the doctor that referred me to the doctor that referred me to the doctor that diagnosed me. She helped manage my medicines from a local standpoint, since I had to go six hours to my specialist. She is a doctor I miss. However, my current doctor is one smart lady. She is the doctor that facilitates my medicines, my referrals, and really tries to help. I don’t feel like I’m just a patient. It’s nice. It also allows me to speak my mind and be at ease, which is so helpful when you face anxiety like I do.

 

Right now, I am dealing with a lot of pain and fatigue. We are trying to figure ways to manage it, without just adding more medications blindly. This is going to be a process, and require several referrals. I feel a bit overwhelmed because it feels like I am back at square one with Fibromyalgia. However, with Wegener’s being in a remission of sorts, that is a huge worry off of my plate. I am anxious to get in with the specialist. As usual, they didn’t have appointments right away. So now I need to find a way to cope with things how they are until I can get in to see them. My initial feeling is to just do what should be natural…eat well, get enough sleep, and exercise. Simple enough. However, when you are in so much pain and extremely fatigued all of that is nearly impossible. I think I cause myself extra grief by stressing myself out about I “should be” doing this and that. It’s very aggravating.

 

I know this blog didn’t help many, but it helped me to just write. J

The Cycle

It seems to be a never ending cycle. The pain is intense. You can’t sleep. However, it’s the lack of sleep that contributes to the pain, and the pain that contributes to the lack of sleep. It’s awful. The doctors can prescribe medicine. They try to help (most try to help) with suggestions on how to deal with the pain, and insomnia. You may find something that works for a while, but eventually, it seems to stop and you are back at square one.

I am back at square one right now. I want to be healthy. I want to live a normal life. When I’m awake at night, I brainstorm of how I will get healthy. I want to switch to a plant-based diet. I want to exercise. I want to not take medications. I want to work. I want to live like I used to live before I got sick, even better than I did. Then morning comes, and I can’t hardly get out of bed. When I finally do get out of bed, my energy level is almost nonexistent. It’s a terrible way to live. I try to make small steps towards my goal. The pain is overwhelming though.

Some days, I push through. I hurt like hell, but I know others are counting on me. This is usually on the weekends when my husband and kids are home. I don’t want them to suffer because I feel like hell. They understand, and know I can’t do everything they want to do, which sucks. I want to do everything they want to do.

I spend a lot of time stretching. It helps. I spend a lot of time in prayer. It helps too. Then, I cry. Sometimes I don’t even know I’m doing it until I hear the sounds of agony, and realize it’s me.

I have realized a few things that do cause my pain to be more intense…stress…lack of sleep…weather changes…STRESS (that’s a big one, and deemed being repeated). Trying to avoid those are all impossible. Again, it’s the cycle. I’m feeling pretty frustrated and defeated. I know this is common among those with chronic illnesses. I just wish the cycle could end.

 

Just catching up

I’ve had a rough time finding time to blog lately. I apologize! I have just been so busy being busy. When I’m not busy, I’m exhausted. I feel that I should just do a quick update of this past week. Hopefully I can find time to blog about something more interesting this week too!

Last week I was dealing with severe dizziness and brain zaps. I still am this week, although the brain zaps aren’t as bad. On Friday I went in for vestibular testing, which was four hours of hearing type tests. The worst was when they put hot air into my ear and recorded my eyes reacting to the severe dizziness it caused. Then they did this with cold air, on each ear. It was horrible. On Monday I went to the doctor to get the results. He said that my hearing is find. Everything came back normal. This means the dizziness, headaches, and such are not caused by my ears. The next step is an MRI on Thursday, and following up with a Neurologist. In the mean time, I’m dealing with a UTI, which of course has them concerned since I just had an infusion, and it can cause Kidney’s to fail. I am going in tomorrow to make sure it’s just a run of the mill UTI, like I think it is, vs some dramatic issue they think it could be. I know it’s better to be safe than sorry, I just get tired of going to the doctor!

One thing I’d like to celebrate is that I didn’t get whatever it was Kenna had on Tuesday of last week. She was so sick. I was terrified I’d get it on Friday or Saturday and I had made commitments I couldn’t back out on. Luckily, I still haven’t gotten sick! Yep, knocking on wood.

Friday after my appointment, Kenna went to the fair with a friend. Travis and I took the time to drive around Forest Grove and look at the house we put an offer in on.

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Travis, Kenna, & I at the wedding.

Saturday we went to a wedding. It was a beautiful, fun, country wedding. I took the photos for them. It was so much fun! It was hot, but honestly, I was distracted with taking all the pictures, that the head didn’t bug me a bit. I took pictures from noonish until 9pm. I was hurting, but it was totally worth it. I really enjoy taking pictures. I had a few moments that were rough, but mostly because my camera decided to stop focusing, so I had to auto focus each picture! I did fairly well, and took 988 photos! What a fun time!!!!

Sunday we decided to go to the beach and meet our dear friends who were there for a dance competition. It was kind of cold so we didn’t stay long. It was fun though. We ate at Mo’s in Cannon Beach, then sat on the beach for about an hour. We stopped for ice cream on the way home. It was fun and low-key.

Today everything has caught up to me. However, I didn’t have a moment to rest. Well, I did sleep in a bit, but I got ready and Kenna and I ran errands. This blog is super boring I know. I promise it’ll get better. I just needed to get this all out and decompress from my busy week.

Oh, and before I forget, let me update you on my cousin. She is doing much better. She’s had 7 surgery’s this past week. They finally were able to pack and suture her leg. I stopped in and saw her yesterday while I was there to get my hearing test results. I loved getting to see her looking so much better! I’d stopped in on Friday before my testing, and she was in surgery. Thank you all for your continued prayers. Please if you can, go to her gofundme.com site: http://www.gofundme.com/8z6ena2x6e and donate.

Family

It’s been a tough week. I’ve been dealing with dizziness, fatigue, pain, and brain fog a lot. Spent last Friday at the doctors trying to figure it out. They’ve scheduled me for an MRI and some vertigo tests this Friday. Then we should know something, I hope. We had a good weekend. Yesterday, Kenna was sick with a 102.4 temp, and spent the day throwing up. She if feeling fine today. I really hope I don’t get it. It was awful.

All that being said, what I want this blog to focus on is family. We do for family. I’m lucky to be in such a wonderful family that is close and helpful to each other. We like to see each other succeed. We don’t bicker and try to do better than someone else. I have always been very proud to be a part of my family.

This week, family has been a big theme. My parents have both come through for me in the past, and are coming through for me again. We are working on a big endeavor, and they are backing us all the way. So very thankful for them.

My cousin, who is going to be 20 on Friday was life flighted to OHSU on Saturday. She has a severe infection that is destroying the tissue in her leg. Our family is surrounded around her, supporting her and praying. Her little beautiful baby girl is just over a month old.

This made me reflect on when I was first going through Chemo in Texas. My daughter and granddaughter flew down to be with me for three weeks, and then my mother flew down and spent another four weeks with us. The next year I had back surgery, and my daughter and granddaughter flew down again and stayed another four weeks. While my mom was with us, my aunt and uncle helped take care of my grandma, and do the things my mom had been doing. I just love how family is there for you when you are in need.

On the flip side, I love being there for family. Granted, I’m a little more limited than I used to be, I am happy to help any one of my family members in need. I’ve helped with kids, places to stay, and more throughout my life. I hope to be in a position to help out again!

For now, I can pray and send positive thoughts, and a supportive shoulder to those who need me.

I hope this blog makes sense…they do have me on some other meds now and I’m a tad foggy.